Shared reading and gadgets

Have you read any interesting tips? Show the article to your partner, get acquainted together. You can also prepare some gadgets. By putting them by the bed, you subconsciously give your partner permission to try them out. Are you embarrassed? Try approaching it with a dose of humour - maybe put a bow on the gadget and say it's a gift for your (or his) intimate place. Don't demand, but suggest new solutions.

Innovate without pressure or comparison

Don't be afraid to say that something makes you happy. By praising a man you give him the feeling of being a super-lover. Such awareness boosts his ego and makes him try even harder, and you won't have to do anything by force. Sometimes you can't do something because of a medical contraindication, for example - if you don't inform each other about this but avoid it, your partner may feel confused. Make him/her aware that something just doesn't suit you - maybe he/she will try something different? No matter what, don't criticise or insult, it doesn't lead to anything good. And under no circumstances compare him to your previous partner!

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Your fantasy - his action

By talking about the caresses that are most pleasurable for you, you will make your partner aware of what he should focus on most and what he should avoid. It is worth remembering that - when it comes to sex - one partner's satisfaction is influenced not only by the other's actions, but also by our attitude. Do you have fantasies of your own? Also, don't be afraid to whisper it to your partner. Maybe he'll prepare a surprise for you one evening?

The perfect conversation

By talking openly about your desires, expectations, but also problems, you create the chance to understand each other better and better and to adjust to each other. This - seemingly - simple conversation can lead to a more perfect rapprochement and ever greater satisfaction from sex.