Scientific studies and observations by psychologists show that children are spending more and more time on the computer. Computer games are their most frequent entertainment choice. For many children they have also become the only source of entertainment. A large group of parents see nothing wrong with their children spending whole afternoons at home staring at a computer screen. What they don't realise is that computer games have both a positive effect on a child's mental and emotional development, but also a negative one. Two camps have now emerged: those in favour of and those against computer games for children.
The importance of computer games in children's development
There are many computer games available on the market, which can help children to learn (history, mathematics, geography, biology), develop their interests, concentration, focus, perceptiveness, decision-making speed and motor coordination.
In many cases, they also help them cope with difficult situations and overcome problems. It is important that the game is suited to the age of the child, as games that are too difficult and complex can lead to frustration, dissatisfaction, discouragement and lower self-esteem. It is therefore advisable for parents to be present when choosing computer games, as children in most cases choose games that are suggested by their peers and have nothing to do with their development and education. Those in favour of computer games see nothing wrong with children using them under their supervision.
Opponents of computer games
The other camp is made up of opponents of computer games who claim that children learn violence, aggression, cruelty, martial arts, deception and vulgarity from them. This is certainly related to the type of game the child has. They believe that games in which people shoot at each other or use any kind of instrument to kill each other have a very negative impact on a child's emotional and psychological development. Any sound effects and realistic game visuals exacerbate these negative emotions.
Scenes seen in so-called 'shooter' games or car chases lead to the development of aggression in children and indifference to violence in everyday life. What is important is that a child who is "captured by a game" is not aware of the deeds he or she does in the virtual world and translates his or her behaviour into the real world, such as fast driving, rock throwing or anti-social behaviour. They are not aware that they will suffer consequences in the real world as a result.
Nevertheless, we should not allow our child to spend hours in front of a screen.