Divorce is one of life's most painful crises. It is not only adults who find it hard to bear. Children and young people feel the separation of their parents acutely. In the same way? How can we help young people to find their way in the new situation?
Children aged 9-10 direct their anger at their parents, sometimes at their peers. Sometimes they strengthen contact with one parent, while accusing the other.
Children aged 13-18 may react with panic, indifference or even joy at the news of a divorce.
Teenagers tend to behave unpredictably. They need peace and stability during adolescence. Teenage children take on the role of caring for younger siblings and comfort one parent while accusing the other. They seek interest among peers. May cause parenting problems. They distance themselves from their parents and escape into their own world. Their self-esteem declines.
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Sometimes it takes many years for children to come to terms with this situation. During a divorce, conversation plays a key role and can reassure the child. Do not go into the details of the divorce: what, why, and for what reasons.
If necessary, it is advisable to seek the help of a professional. He or she will help you to accept the new situation, the changes and to come to terms with the accumulated emotions.
